Pregnancy Belly - Beautiful Representation of New Life of Creepy Alien Growth?

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I have always been scared of pregnant bellies. They freak me out. The idea of a tiny human growing inside another person is pretty weird.

I've had thoughts in the past about it and how I was fairly certain I could never have kids because I couldn't look at the belly every day, knowing what was going on in there.



My only hope was that the fiancée would grow so slowly that I may just not notice... Plus I see her every day so maybe I won't be freaked out. This conversation even came up with my boss about a year ago when he found out his wife was pregnant. We both agreed that pregnancy bellies are just really fucking weird.

Over the last few months, however, I've stopped worrying about all of this. I'm actually looking forward to her showing more and more. (I doubt she's as excited about it as I am...) I have no idea what switch has been flicked in my head that has stopped me freaking out but I'm glad it's happened. My mentality on a lot of things has changed since we found out. I'm calmer in general, I worry less about unimportant things and I feel a lot more equipped to deal with pretty much everything life throws at me.



It's weird how noticing one change in yourself can make you think about other changes that you may not have noticed. I feel like a completely different person to the one I was a few months ago but I think I'm changing for the better.

I'd also like to apologise for writing about the changes I'm going through when clearly my fiancée is going through real-life, physical changes and not just mental ones...

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