Ch-ch-ch-changes
"Turn and face the strange. Ch-ch-changes"
Last night, true to form, the missus was in the bathroom for an unusually long time. (See here...)
As usual, I went into panic mode. This time is was about 10 minutes. I ended up knocking on the door and asking if she'd fallen down the hole. (Practicing my Dad humour). She came out and we went back to bed. A few minutes later I looked over and she had tears running down her face. Her head was half covered by the pillow so I tried to lift it off. She held her head down so I couldn't see her properly. I asked what was wrong and she said one word...
"CHANGES".
Imagine being a girl in her mid 20s who has always been fit, healtly and slim and suddenly finding your waist getting thicker, your boobs getting sore and basically just feeling like a pile of shit all the time. It must suck.
When she cries I've realised the best course of action is to just be with her but without trying to console her too much. We lay in bed in silence for a while with thoughts rushing through my head. I knew what was wrong.
She's always had a very high sex-drive. I mean, I do too but this girl is something else. I've been terrified of sex since we found out she was with child. You read everywhere that sex is fine during prgnancy and there's nothing to worry about but there's this little thought in my head that says otherwise.
Long story short, we had sex and suddently everything is fine... If that's what it takes to make her happy I suppose I can manage to have more sex.
What a tough life...
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Last night, true to form, the missus was in the bathroom for an unusually long time. (See here...)
As usual, I went into panic mode. This time is was about 10 minutes. I ended up knocking on the door and asking if she'd fallen down the hole. (Practicing my Dad humour). She came out and we went back to bed. A few minutes later I looked over and she had tears running down her face. Her head was half covered by the pillow so I tried to lift it off. She held her head down so I couldn't see her properly. I asked what was wrong and she said one word...
"CHANGES".
Imagine being a girl in her mid 20s who has always been fit, healtly and slim and suddenly finding your waist getting thicker, your boobs getting sore and basically just feeling like a pile of shit all the time. It must suck.
When she cries I've realised the best course of action is to just be with her but without trying to console her too much. We lay in bed in silence for a while with thoughts rushing through my head. I knew what was wrong.
She's always had a very high sex-drive. I mean, I do too but this girl is something else. I've been terrified of sex since we found out she was with child. You read everywhere that sex is fine during prgnancy and there's nothing to worry about but there's this little thought in my head that says otherwise.
Long story short, we had sex and suddently everything is fine... If that's what it takes to make her happy I suppose I can manage to have more sex.
What a tough life...
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